him 6 hours a day;. theyre obsessed. but theyre not gay im sure. they love eachother, and its not like theyve been through tough shit, its weird. it bothers me. he always pics his friend first. i have no friends, so it bothers me that im always last option. he wont make it equal. his friend gets mad if he hangs with me because they could be hanging instead. im always last and im sick of it. ive talked to him about it and hes not changing. but i dont want to lose our friendship. what should i do?
I’m really unsure if there is anything you can do, to be honest. If you fight your hardest to keep the friendship, and he doesn’t fight in return nothing can save it, really. It’s a sad truth, but a friendship needs two people to making it work, not just one person putting all the effort in. I would try talking to him about it again and really explain how you’re feeling. But, you have to realize, that you might have to let him go. I know that it’s a scary thing, but people change and sometimes grow apart. If he won’t make any time for you, is he really a friend you want to keep around? I don’t think so.