Anonymous asked: I'm starting to annoy everyone my friends, classmates and I just feel awful I want to disappear.

Have people told you that you’re annoying them? If not, don’t jump to conclusions or be negative about yourself. I’m sure you’re an awesome person and just being hard on yourself!

-Julia :)

Anonymous asked: i havent had a boyfriend in over 2 years and i recently found someone i really liked and i thought he liked me too. well atleast he acted like it. we would talk every day and he would say the nicest things and made me feel like the most special girl in the world. but then he asked me for pictures.. when i said no he just stopped talking to me. what should i do? should i confront him or just leave it alone?

You deserve someone to respect you, that’s the bottom line. If you used to to get pictures from you, then he doesn’t respect you and chances are he’s just in it for that kind of stuff. You deserve so much better than that. If you want to you can confront him but that doesn’t mean he’s going to change and leaving it alone would also work so you can move on to someone who will actually respect you.

- Hailey

Anonymous asked: I can't even deal with everything anymore. I've seriously considered suicide so many times. The more i consider it the more I want to do it. Everytime I just want to die more. I'm scared ill actually do it.

Love, I really wish you would seek help. Life gets overwhelming sometimes for everyone and there usually isn’t much to do except go with it and wait for the hard times to pass. Please know that your life is worth living, no matter how stressful it may be. You are beautiful and there’s a purpose for your life, even if you don’t know what that purpose is yet. You deserve the chance at a beautiful, happy life so don’t take that away from yourself.

Anonymous asked: (Pt 3) The only person who ever genuinely asks me if I'm okay is my friend on my team. And I'm so grateful for her. Whenever I bring it up to one of my other friends they change the subject really fast so I just figure they don't care enough.

(Pt 1) I’m in therapy for my depression but only my family knows. I feel bad because my dad always calls my therapist “the doctor” and I think he doesn’t wanna cope with the fact I’m depressed, yet. I wish my friends knew because they’re the main problem. I only have like 3 friends I like and the other people I hang out with constantly make fun on me and never invite me anywhere. (Pt 2) And it hurts but it hurts more that my best friend never stands up for me. I feel like if they knew everything they’d back off a little bit. If my best friend knows, she keeps it to herself. She doesn’t like confronting me about it because she thinks it’ll trigger something (she knows some things and that I’ve had a bad couple years but doesn’t know I’m in therapy).

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Don’t assume things about people. Just because they haven’t talked to you about it doesn’t mean they dont care, they might just not know how to approach the topic. When it comes to mental illnesses, people tend to not know how to deal with that kind of a thing in another person, so they avoid it altogether. It doesn’t mean they don’t care. If you want them to talk about it, bring it up and I’m sure they wouldn’t mind making sure you’re okay.

- Hailey

Anonymous asked: (Part 3) its as if hes trying to make me jealous but i dunno why. he's pretty much ignoring me too. I just want my friend back. What do I do?

(Part 1)I met this boy, we got along amazingly as friends. He was one of the loveliest people I had ever met. We ended up sleeping together one night. After we were fine for a day then he started telling me he was going on a date with the girl he knows I hate, then stopped speaking to me. A few days later I found out he had apparently been on a date with her bff. The next time I seen him he wasn’t the same,he just wasn’t being he usual self…(Part 2) We fell out on a night out after that and he wouldn’t speak for a week. He was telling me he’d kissed one of my friends which he hasn’t. The next time after that I saw him he was trying to get with my friend right in front of me but we were getting on fine then he ended up kicking off at me for no reason and was kicking me in the head & face & calling me awful names. Minutes later he was apologising and took me for a walk to say sorry etc. that was last weekend and I’m fine with him…

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You dont deserve to be treated like that. You can find a guy who causes much less drama and would never hurt you. Don’t put up with anything less.

- Hailey

Anonymous asked: I had a chemistry test today, but I got really stressed out because I don't understand anything and woke up sick today so I missed the test. If I can't get a 90% in this course I might not get into the university I want to get into. I'm a perfectionist. I can't help it, but i'm not even THAT much of a perfectionist. Like, this kid in my class is getting better marks than me. That kills my self esteem. I'm screwed now. I'm behind 4 tests now in Chem and 2 lab reports. What do I do???

Take a deep breath. Relax. Your entire life doesn’t depending on what university you get into, I can assure you of that. Break everything down, and conquer one thing at a time. Take the time, but work quickly. Take short breaks after you completed an assignment. You could also talk to your teacher about it and see how they can help you. Teachers want their students to succeed, so ask them for help. Good luck!

-Sara

Anonymous asked: Today at lunch I walked into a classroom to review for a test and a couple of my "friends" were in there and they kept yelling at me to get out and no one wanted me there and all this like dead serious and I didn't know how to respond so I just sat down. Then my best friend walked in and still sat with everyone else who were being mean to me before. Like I don't know what I did to them. After lunch ended I just ran out crying and no one said anything to me. +

Anonymous asked: Is it possible to feel lonely just for one day?

of course it is. No feeling is necessarily “wrong” to feel.

- Hailey

Anonymous asked: Me and my ex broke up 5 months ago, we were together for a year. were both 17. we are best friends, or were. ever since weve been through alot, friends with benefits, friends, enemies, mutual, and everything. right now were friends, but we hookup. like we are actually genuinely friends, we hangout and stuff its not about the sex. we wont date again just because we both know it wont work, but well always have those feelings for eachother. he has this one best friend, he literally hangs out with

Anonymous asked: I self harm on my wrist. everytime they ache alot after, and i can feel the pulse and my arm feels heavy. whats that mean?

Darling, we’re not doctors. I would suggest going to see one. Please get help. <3

Anonymous asked: Hi, I don't have a problem, but I was wondering, how did you make your blogs appear in the link of "who we are"? Thanks

Well, first you have to add a new page. So I went to customize -> pages -> add a page and then I typed up a person’s name and then clicked the attach button, which looks like a chain right next to the picture of a tree on the bar thing above where you type. And then I pasted the person’s URL there and saved the page. :)

I hope that’s what you were asking.

-Sara

Anonymous asked: I don't have many friends and I don't have a pet and my family and I don't get along. :(

You have to reach out to people, love. You can’t always expect people to come to you. We’ll be your friend, so you already have us yay friends. You can always change how you act around people, just give it a shot

Anonymous asked: Hi, I'm feeling, well lonely, and I was wondering if you had a way not feelilng lonely, or will it last a long time?

You could try hanging out with a group of close friends or maybe just find something fun to do with your family. This might sound silly, but even hanging out with your pet can completely change your mood. If anything, try not to wallow in the loneliness, I know I am guilty of doing that sometimes,so instead, try to find a way to occupy yourself (working out, reading, painting, ect) :)
-Bri xx 

Anonymous asked: three years ago, my best friend passed away (OD that i'm not entirely sure wasn't intentional). sunday would have been his birthday. today, his mother came by my house to say hi/see how i was and said she thought about me a lot and she had always hoped he and i get back together because "your first love is special." i was having an okay day but now i feel DESTROYED inside. i just keep thinking about how he's gone forever and i'll never see him again.

i’m sure it is hard but i don’t think he’d want you to be sad. he’d want you to remember the good, fun times you guys had. it was really nice of his mom to stop by, maybe talking to her about him and remembering the good times with her will give you more closure. i’m sure he’s looking over you <3 -Brianna

Anonymous asked: Nobody notices me or my feelings, not even my school notices I haven't turned up. Why does no one care?

People care, but you can’t expect to be saved if no one knows you’re in danger. I’m here if you need someone to talk to.

Like this if you care, please. <3