Anonymous asked: How can you make sure that this guy will stay in the friends zone, and that he won't think that there is this "something" ?

I’m not sure if this is in reference to a different question…

In order to make sure that a guy doesn’t think there is something more than just friends, you should flat out tell him. I think he will respect that a lot more than if you lead him on and just don’t say anything. Honesty is always the best way to go in a situation where emotions and feelings are involved so just tell this guy that you want to be friends and nothing more!

-Julia

Anonymous asked: My good friend recently committed suicide. saturday may 26 to be exact. her ex made an attempt around the first week of may. they broke up on may 11th. hes been really suicidal, especially since she took her life. im pretty much his best friend and he is really thankful for me. everyone is telling me theyre so thankful im there for him because he cares for me the most, but it feels like its not enough, i want to help him more. any advice? i know hes ready to take his life.

I’m so sorry love, that’s such a tough situation to be in. Honestly, I think the best thing you can do is just be there for him and show him that you support him and care about him. All people really want is to be loved and cared about and if you do that, I think he will continue to appreciate it. If you want to direct him somewhere that could possibly help him more, direct him to the suicide hotline (you can google the number for whatever country you live in) and they can maybe provide some more assistance. Remind him that his girlfriend wouldn’t want him to do this, and that he has so much to live for even if it doesn’t feel like it right now. Tell him that you can get through it together! If you feel comfortable with it, you could also recommend that he seek professional help from a therapist or a group of people who know what he’s going through. I hope this has helped and if your friend ever wants to talk to anyone, we’re here! Best of luck to you. <3

-Julia

Anonymous asked: Two weeks b4 my ex dumped me i heard rumor that he was gonna nd i confrntd him bout it and he said it wasnt true. that day we went further. i feel like he didnt break up with me then cuz he got some and then he waited a week later to dump me but idk. b4 he actually did dump me he said he "had to tell me something" and i asked if it would be bad or good and he said dont worry its not bad. well later that week he dumped me. he was an asshole but i cant get over him and i dont know what to do.

As simple and cold as this is going to sound there really is no other option than to move on, love. No matter the reason he dumped you, which quite well could have been what you’re suggesting, the relationship is over. From the way you are describing this ex boyfriend of yours, he doesn’t really sound like that great of a guy. You are wonderful person who plenty to offer any person, and deserve to be treated as such. It’s going to be tough, but for your own benefit you need to move on. Find someone who realizes how special you are, and will cherish that, instead of what your ex has done. He’s out there waiting for you, I promise. Keep your head up and don’t let this get you down. Best of wishes, xoxo.

-Stephy

Anonymous asked: My boyfriend dumped me and now were beginning to be friends again and i think if we hangout hes gonna want to hook up and i still like him and so of course id want to but i feel like 1. that wont help me get over him and 2. idk if he even likes me or he just wants to hookup and doesnt care...

Hello, darling! To answer this question properly it would be very helpful to know why you and your ex broke up in the first place? Is it something you regret and would like to try and repair the relationship? Or something else such as cheating? Please write back! 

-Stephy

Anonymous asked: just wanted to say that this blog has given me some of the best advice and changed my perspective of life and thank you! <3

Awh, thank you darling! We do our best to help everyone and anyone the best we can. Stay beautiful. <3

-Stephy

I’m glad! I can’t speak for everyone on the team, but that’s really all we want to do. We’re a collection of different people from all over sharing our experiences with those as diverse as our experiences. I’m happy that you have benefited from our work.

-Josh

Anonymous asked: i cut. sometimes i feel like im not worth it. the littlest things break me down. i feel like no one cares. i feel like an outcast. all i want to do is cut. because no one can see the pain im in. everyone saids i always smile. but they dont see me. i hurt so much. it hurts. i keep on crying. i dont know what to do. i just want to die...

Hun, please don’t feel that way! It’s okay to break down and it’s okay to feel weak sometimes… That doesn’t make you a bad person! You are beautiful and you deserve so much better than to feel like this. Can you talk to family or friends about how you feel? Many people take a smile as meaning that someone is okay. If you don’t tell anyone how you really feel, they won’t know. :/ If you live in the US, I would highly recommend calling the anonymous suicide hotline [1-800-273-8255] and talking to someone there. They can take to you about whatever you’re feeling, and you can be open without feeling embarrassed. Stay strong, everything will be okay!

-Julia

Anonymous asked: im kind of embarrassed to ask my mom too. she never really backs me up on anything that i do. soccer, singing, swimming, nothing

I’m sorry, is this the same anon about the YouTube videos? I don’t see why you wouldn’t be allowed to do that. It doesn’t cost anything to upload your videos. I’m sure your mom’ll be okay with it as long as she knows that (:

- AimeeAnn♥

Anonymous asked: hey :) should i start to make singing videos on youtube? im not bad and i do a lot of competitions and stuff and who knows, maybe i'll get discovered. but i dont want the whole school to know how i sing. im just kinda embarrassed.. what shouldi do?

Hey love!

Go for it! If that’s something you really wanna do, then you should it! Don’t worry about what the other kids think. It’s that simple (:

- AimeeAnn♥

Anonymous asked: What if people make fun of you for dating again you dated in the begining of the year what do you do?

If you happy dating that person again, I don’t think it should matter. People can say whatever they want, but at the end of the day, it only matters how you guys feel about eachother. A lot of people gave me a hard time for dating my ex (she was a freshman and I was a senior) but when people started to see that I was happy with her and that I didn’t really care what other people thought, they let up and just let us do what we wanted. People will tend to respect a decision when you put the conviction behind making it.

Just show people you’re happy with your choice and the rest shouldn’t be an issue.

-Josh